Is it strange for me to want to be pregnant?

[organicem]

Ok. So here it is, have been reading other posts and am still thinking I might be very strange.
My exDH and I DTD just over a week ago and he up and left for good a couple of days later.
Anyway we didn't use any protection and he withdrew. I am sure that he did not do so in time as I had discharge afterwards (sorry if TMI) that I only got when we were trying to concieve before and used no protection. Also his hand would have been covered in ejacuate and well it didn't end there IYKWIM?

So two questions...has anyone else gotten pregnant like this?
And is it strange for me to want to be pregnant when we are not together anymore? (I think it would give me something to look forward to and I always wanted more children).

[Marlene]

I haven't gotten pregnant like that myself, but it is definitely possible!

I don't think it is strange that you would want to be pregnant, I honestly think if my DH and I were going to separate (have been having a rough time lately, but slowly getting better) I would be tempted to get pregnant first, lol, we make wonderful children and I don't think I'm finished having babies yet. It might not be the ideal situation...but I would definitely be tempted.

[organicem]

Hi Marlene
Thanks for your reply.
Hope things keep getting better for you!!
Good to know I am not strange...if I would have known he was going I would have actually tried too as do want at least one more even if I am alone.

[widdly]

It is definately possible to get pregnant that way, I got pregnany once using withdrawal method.

As for being normal to want to be pregnant, for sure that is normal under your circumstances. We are designed to want to reproduce, your feelings are only natural

[drbeee]

Yep, IMHO it is normal to feel that way, TOTALLY! Especially if the kids are the best thing to come out of your relationship IFKWIM?