I went to the doc for a gyno referral a few weeks ago and hubby is having a seminal analysis tomorrow (under sufferance)
BUT
1. My BBs have been really tender/sore since about CD18 (this only ever happens 1-2 days before AF and never this sore) and I usually ovulate around days 11-15.
2. I had HEAPS of EWCM on day 11 and we DTD on day 11 & 12.
3. My nipples also look and feel different (sorry TMI) They are usually quite flat and not at all sensitive but seem redder and fuller and sensitive to the touch.
It is now CD23 and only BFNs on day 19 and 21 (i didn't really expect a BFP!) I am going crazy with what ifs and maybes and just wanted to share.
It is soooo nerve wracking isn't it. Am I, aren't I, am I, aren't I, am I, aren't I???????
Physical symptoms are often a very good indication of pregnancy so I hope your body is giving you an early indication of a little bub developing.
Good luck & don't panic too much if DH's SA isn't that great. My DH got bad results two months before we fell pg with this bub. We were told IVF would be the next step if we weren't pg in 3 more cycles..... but I just changed our bd pattern and BFP (yep - the spontaneous romance left our place long ago). you get a BFP real soon.
:goodluck2:
I dont envy you planning a wedding - definitely stressful! I got married 16months ago - my advice is just enjoy the journey and don't sweat the small stuff (hmmm...a bit like TTC, maybe I should take my own advice!)
Thanks Rach, GOODLUCK!!! to you too! How long have you been trying?
UPDATE: Its CD 25 and another BFN this morning. Talking to my Mum, she didn't ever get a BFP via POAS with me, but that was 30 years ago. I'm just trying to think positive! I am having a few abdominal twinges so think AF is on her way, usually arrives day 28/29 so....sigh...but you never know!
AF has hit me hard! I couldn't sleep last night and couldn't get out of bed this morning. Have spent the day sleeping and crying. I don't know why this cycle was such a disappointment?
DH didn't make it home in time to go to the docs, so have rescheduled for Saturday. The info package and forms arrived from the gyno today also. Made me really worry even more that there is something wrong with me!
kyliejane - You're allowed to crash every now and then. I was positive I was going to fall pg on my first cycle of clomid & when I didn't I just lost it. I came home from work and had a bottle of sav blanc for dinner Seemed like a good idea at the time...
By going to the gyno he should hopefully reassure you both. I've been convinced at times that there is something wrong with me too. It's an awful feeling. Odds are you are perfectly normal and if they do pick anything up at least they will know how to help you.
You're right, tomorrow will be a new day. Sending you lots of positive vibes.
KJ, sorry to hear that. Hopefully tomorrow you will wake up and feel a bit better and more positive. It's hard to know what to say. You have probably already tried this, but have you bought those ovulation kits from the supermarket?
Well got DH's results - not good! only 16million and only 20% rapid progressive! Doc said we are unlikely to conceive but did not offer any options? DH has started on menevit? Where to from here? i have NO IDEA!
AHHH...Going CRAZY!!! TWW
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you get a BFP real soon. 
Seemed like a good idea at the time...
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