Any ideas whats going on?

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Old Hx: Have had three bubs and one mc, fell first or 2nd time each time. Have now been trying for 5 months. Had 28day clock work cycle ALL MY LIFE (except when i am BF new bubbas). I am currently BF my 17month old. Got AF back after 9 months, had 3-4 normal cycles and then they started to stretch to 5 then 6 weeks long......

THEN : Had my period on 21stjan-25thjan, DTD 31st, then a small bleed the evening of the 1st, felt like AF was going to come, then nothing for 24hrs, then same thing that morning 2nd, then 3rd. But now since the 3rd it hasnt really gone away. Sort of like AF is trying to come but not. Wearing panty liners. Mostly when i wipe and it goes from bright red to dark and back again all day.... Was due to O on 3rd and i was am not really sure i didnt??

Forgot to say that just before my last AF i started accupuncture and herbs and my cycle had been late and AF started after a few days so maybe i wasnt meant to have AF then and this is a light AF cause of that?? Anyway herbs changed on the 4th and im still am mess so that should have stopped what was going on? i am so confused.

Getting frustrated now as DH travels heaps and it can be hard to DTD at the right time. This was meant to be the month (he is home for 11days at what was meant to be the 'right' time). We have given ourselves a deadline of 8more months to fall as we dont want a big age gap

Anyone have any idea whats going on?