Thanks Saram all you girls have given me soooooooo much hope and positive feelings about it all. I must admit I'm a bit scared it will take forever. My DP is 40 now and me only 28.
Just another question, did any of you girls experience "butterflies" or "twinges" in your ovary/uterus area after ovulation...? It might be in my head, unsure lol
Bindy - I fell pg straight away with my first two, then took 3 months with the third. We had an oopsie last year but MC'd at 15wks. We had taken some time to recoup emotionally and decided we needed to fullfill that emptiness and are now on our second cycle. I am a little concerned about hearing so many ladies have so much trouble TTC and I suppose I just took things for granted. I don't think I am strong enough to even get past 6 months of TTC. The strength that some of these ladies posses is just so inspiring. I wish everyone good luck on their TTC journey.....
Nicambhar sorry about your MC at 15 weeks I am glad you have had some time now and trying again, good luck. Yes I don't know how I would have the strength some women have in here, it must be hard for many of them. Some have been TTC for years...how terrible I take my hat off to those in that boat and I hope to GOD it does not happen to us xx
I don't know...it feels like something is happening down there???? I know that sounds strange but I get a "feeling". I wonder if any of you guys just had a "feeling"??
Hi Caro it seems you didn't have too many trouble either. I just am so worried I won't catch it this month and this is the first month we have tried. I really think I'm just putting too much emphasis on it all and I don't want it to rule my life but I really want a baby. I know when AF comes along in a couple of weeks (if I don't fall PG), I am going to be devastated I will try my hardest to be positive
Bindy - I am with you. I think I will be devastated if it doesn't happen this cycle ( I really want a christmas bubba ).
Right now if I hear DP say "don't get yourself so worked up over it - it will happen" one more time I think I just may loose it.... He is just all too calm about it..
Good luck..
Hahaha Nicambhar if I hear my DP say "it will happen, just chill out" again, I will honestly stop speaking to him! lol...even telling him my fertile days, he just feels like a sperm donor...I so don't think of him that way but being men, they have pretty weird thinking! Best of luck..I also want a Christmas Bubba
Bindy - My DP thinks that I am out of control because I have joined BB. I think that he should be greatful to BB website otherwise he would cop all of my venting LOL.
Hope to catch up with you again soon.
Goodnight all....
Same, my DP says it should be just between us...but then he doesn't really like talking about CM etc...he thinks it's a bit TMI...so that's why I rely on the girls in here if I have any questions...because it's not like DP has had a baby or anything or can experience what I am going through. I love DP with all of my heart and can't wait for him to father our baby but he's no chick if you catch my drift lol..goodnight, sleep well
Um....we weren't 'trying' lol. I had been off the pill for 2 months as I was trying to lose some weight and thought that might help. We were using condoms as we wanted to wait a little bit longer so that we could get things sorted around the house. We had an 'oopsy' one time where we got carried away in the moment and what do you know - we now have a 5 weeks old daughter and would not change it for the world!
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