BFN but no AF!!!??

Hey there rach.. thanks for your comment.. well i havent had my AF since 3 sept!!!! ive been off pill for 4 months and i have been fairly regular.. although the cycle b4 last AF i had b4 the one on the 3 sept was longer..
i got spotting on friday.. i did a test yesterday (sat) and it was BFN.. havent had spotting since.. had cramping here and there.. although nothing yet! my dr said if i dont get my AF by this week to book in and we will do a blood test.. feels like im gonna get AF but heaps of people say they get this feeling and they end up being UTD...but in the back of my mind i keep saying im not just to save the disappointed plus this is the first month we gave it ago..
as for the CM yes i got that egg white stuff about 2 weeks ago.. but we DTD the day b4.
control freak i have been watching your situation for the past few weeks and im sorry to hear you got your AF.. and that its painful! i hate that!!! feeling for you on my end althoughi just wish i cud get my AF so i can move on!!! my bellie is soo bloated and i feel like crap coz i cant proudly say im bloated for a reason to myself haha.
how long do you have to wait for a positive result rach?
as for your comment tali thank you i realise that i could be out of wack.. hence why im curious.. although my dr also had said if i dont get my AF she wants to test.. im not worried if im not but want to make sure every thing is ok with my body.. especially sincei have ovulated!

thanks girlies really appreciating your imput..

also whats the longest cylce someone has had b4 you got an AF?? i ran into a gf on the weekend who fell pregnant second cylce and she said her cycles were 7 weeks long!!! just gave birth to a beautiful baby girl. its sooo amazing what the body does!

Wow I hope you get a definite answer soon...it is so frustrating isn't it. If I still haven't got AF by the end of the week I will book in with my normal dr (not the one I went to yesterday) and get levels rechecked...i figure they should go up some more by then if I was pregnant, I just wish drs would be more specific..and if it was too early to get a firm result then why send me for the blood test...grrrr. Good luck :)

thinking of you rach.. hope all ends up positive!! yeh i have never had a cycle this long!! just more frustrating than any thing be good to see an AF just to put an end to the sarga!

if i dont have it by wed i think ill book in with my dr also coz im sick of spending money on these HPT and not getting a result and still not having an AF.. thinking of you!!

and me of you :)

Oh Amsta, I really feel for you. Good luck with everything. I hope you get a BFP soon or you get some answers from your doctor.

Baby Dust!!

Thank you sooo much.. i am due to go to the dr in two days for a blood test so hopefully i will know more.. had slight spotting on fri.. not much and still no af..

hoping for either a positive or an AF at this point.. rather frustrating!

rach how are you doing??? any news?

Amsta the tiredness is an excellent sign, I was such a tired wreck when I was pregnant, I'd crash as soon as I got home from work. I also got pins and needles but down my back, plus the spotting and cramps. I hate to get your hopes up if you're not pg, but these signs sound very very good! Let us know how you go with the Dr. xx

thank you.. just now i have cramps in my left ovary.. i just been going to the loo to see and there is nothing there!
thought my stomach is also rolling and had lots of gas.. so maybe im getting it maybe im not..
i have had pins n needles in my boobs..
was thinking maybe i shudnt go to the gym tonight although if its meant to be there it will b if i am hey..
if im meant to get my af i will..
so i think i shud go to the gym..

another thing extremely unusual.. if i push on my tummy down near that area.. it hurts.. very tender.. never had that b4.

Hey Amsta, those signs are really good. I got sore and tingly boobs and lots of gas before I got my BFP..

Thats sounds really good!

When are you testing again?

Do you temp? Have you got a link to your chart??

i am going to the dr on thursday.. i havent kept a chart yet.. how do i check my temp.. what should it be?

You can use Fertility Friend to record your temps. Basically you take your temp every morning at the same time. Before you get out of bed. You can then record your temp in fertility friend and it can help determine the day the O'd and testing dates etc. Taking your temp once wont tell you anything. I would suggest temping your next cycle if this cycle is a bust. Buy yourself a cheap BBT monitor.

You can register here for free at fertility friend, this is the best way to get to know your body

Ovulation Calendar and Ovulation Chart - FertilityFriend.com

thanks heaps alana youve been a big help :) i will register just in case.. to be honest i dont mind if im not UTD.. just soo over this cylce!!
congratulations on your BFP hope that every thing runs smoothly for you from here on in.. how long were u trying for???
wow cramps have stopped for a second!! maybe coz i jst went to the loo again.. just in case i got my AF! hahahaha this is rediculious!

Thats no problem, more than happy to help. We were trying for about 2 years (just not using protection) Because I have PCOS I new there may be a chance that I may need meds to help me, so I started Clomid (med that helps you ovulate) and got pregnant on my first cycle!!!
So miracles do happen :)

I dont think that it has sunk in yet, Im stressing that something is going to happen cause it just seems too good to be true. I know Im being silly. I think this is normal. I have a scan at 6 weeks to make sure it is not an eptopic, once that is done I think I will be able to relax and enjoy the pregnacy.

Well I wish you all the best and keep me updated, Id love to hear how you go

Amsta..how is it going?

I spoke with my GP/OB yesterday and he said my results sound consistant with early pregnancy but will see me on Saturday.. I assume he will examine me and send me for another blood test...the only frustrating thing with that is I won't get the blood results until Monday but oh well. I also have had tender and tingly breasts, gas (OMG!!), fatigue. I also have had sharp pains on my left side which I will often get when I am ovulating..so not sure what that is about. I have also got raised glands on my areola which I remember from my last pregnancy....I think that I am (otherwise what else would it be!). I am keeping my fingers crossed for you also.

Fingers crossed for both Amsta & Rachel.
I will be thinking of you guys, Hope all goes well tody and tomorrow.

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Me too - Good luck

Hey there girlies.. great to hear from you again..
i wrote an email back last night but the website went down! as for my symptoms.. my boobs are tingly.. and every time i get the tingle i feel myself taking a look round my shoulder to give em a push almost like i expect them to push back! .. just for the record they dont hahaha!so i can sympathise with you alana.. coz every time i get this feeling that ive never haed before.. (usually my af comes with a sharp cramp.. moodiness.. then bleeding and nothing else) thats why i keep grabbing my boobs coz i think im sooo confused and doubtful! hahahaha!
i counted this morning and it will b 9 weeks on tuesday comming since i had the first day of my period!
great news rach.. i have my you in my thoughts for saturday :) i am very positive you will get your answer you have been craving..

off to the dr's this afternoon at 5pm.. so bring on 5pm.. although im worried that the u rine test will be neg.. considering it will b taken during the afternoon. i havent done a test since last saturday.. hoping a blood test will show something to give me an answer as to why its been nearly 9 weeks since my af! ill feel like a fool if im not pregnant.. and kinda scared as to why i am not getting my af when i defo ovulated.
fingers crossed and im sorry about this post.. alot of things going through my mind today.. coz i dont want to feel like an idiot.. but on the other hand why am i getting symptoms ive never had?