BFN but no AF!!!??

also.. ive been doing work outs.. and having loads of sex to bring on my AF.. nothing..

Hey Amsta,
Goodluck for today, fingers crossed:pray:
Will be thinking of you
:bluedust::pink-babydust::stickyvibesgirl::stickyvibesboy:

Well Amsta?? I'm hanging to hear how you went at the Doc?!?!

hey there girlies.. as you are well aware went to the dr yesterday afternoon.. dr said that i definetly ovualted this month.. and that i had symptoms of being UTD but the urine test was negative.. werid!
sooo she has sent me to the pathology to do a blood test and said taht commonly it may not show in a urine test.. so any way trying the blodo test thing and will get the results this afternoon as she is pushing them through as urgent! yay!
alternatively we will do an ultra sound if its still neg..
im kinda worked up at the moment.. im in soo much doubt at the moment that im even pregnant now that the urine test is neg.. but no AF! what the? and cramping... and sore boobies.. been really moodie.. and its funny on the trip home i started to try and thinka bout my symptoms (this can be dangerous coz u start to look into things) but DH is going up to indy this weekend and im really emotional about him going.. (ie indy girls haha) im never like that.. i am usually yay go ill see u on sunday! also we were at a bbq and someone was smoking outside and i could smell it from inside.. then DH passed wind (sorry TMI) and i cud smell it and nearly choked on my breaky hahaha and he cudnt smell it!
ahhhhh i dunno this afternoon will tell but the dr was very interested in my blood type coz she didnt had this in her records.. so she is getting that today as well. i was discussing this with DH coz i told him and he said that maybe that could have something to do with my bloody type and his clashing???
also i said to DH this was the first month we gave it ago.. surely we wudnt b.. (i guess trying not to work myself up) and he said there are plenty of people that are UTD after the first time.. so i think he is being really supportive :)
rach how are you going????
and alana.. how is your little bubble going.. u got your scan soon?
kirstin thanks for following my sarga.. hopefully it will have a result soon..
any more info would be great ladies !!!

GOSH - this has been a whirl wind of events for you, I cant believe you have had to go through all this. How many days passed your due period are you??
Hopefully this afternoon will give you all the answers...

Yeah Im not going too badly, havnt really coped many of the symptoms yet, just really tired and a bit crampy. Im really worried and until I get a scan and see or hear that it is in the uterus and not the tube I cant stop worrying. I have got my scan on the 3rd of November. So I am really eexcited :)

Let us know what your results come back as, its so bizarre everything except the blood test is like you are pregnant.

I wish you so much luck :)

thanks alana.. my period was due the 30th so i am 24 days over due.. which means i am in day 52 of my cycle..
it is werid.. but im trying to think that im not pregnant coz i dont want the disappointment.. other than that i have no idea what is going on.. lets hope this afternoon brings more news!!! dr said effectively if i ovulated on the 29/30 sept (i think that was the date)i should have my af by now! and the spotting and cramping is a good sign..
if it is neg then she said we may look into an ultra sound to see if there is any thing there.. or if there is something else going on..
werid tho coz my other AF's have been fairly regular.. either a few days out.. or a week. not nearly a full month hehehehe
alana im sure things are fine:) and it is only natural to worry until you see that little heart beat.. and hey i wouldnt be complaining if u havnt got symstoms.. although this can make you feel like its not really happening.. its like praying for your af you pray for symptoms so it feels real..
i have great faith that every thing is going fine for you and its only a few more days really till your scan :)
oxoxoxox

Hi Amsta,

Just wondering why the doc is so sure you ovulated. Did you have an ultrasound? As far as I know ultrasound combined with a BT is the only way to be sure that you have actually ovulated.

Try not to get your hopes up too much. I've seen a number of women in the same position as you and almost all of them turn out to be not pregnant - just a wacko cycle. I have of course seen the odd one that has turned out to be pregnant - sometimes all is well and sometimes it is not.

Best of luck. I hope you get the result you are looking for.

hence why im not getting my hopes up.. to be honest i think that it is an odd cycle.. but i think 8 weeks is long enough to wait b4 looking into it... i should be getting my af more often than that really... if im not then my dr wants to keep an eye on it. my mum had to have hormones to fall preg.. so my dr is keeping an eye on my cycles and my body etc because if we are actively trying for 6 months rather than 12 she will look into it.. but i guess thats just my dr.
i decribed to her the day that i had all this mucus what it looked like.. how odd it was.. how much there was etc.. i even showed my husband.. coz i was like what is happening!
so from that she said it sounds like i definetly ovualted.. although yes you are right until we get the blood results we wont know.
sorry i should have explained a little better.

You poor thing. It must be really frustrating waiting to see what's going on. I used to hate the TWW - I can't imagine how hard it is when that's extended by several weeks. I've never experienced anything like it.

Well hopefully you will have an answer soon.

Well satya you were right..

my blood test came back negative... so guess we cna assume that i am not UTD.

my doctor said that if i do not receive my AF in the next week she wants to do an ultra sound.

i think its a matter of waiting for my AF to arrive.. i woke up this morning with the flu so i took some pain killers coz my body was aching all over.. so its good to have the negative result and b able to take nurophen plus..

thanks again every one. will keep you posted.

I'm sorry the BT came back negative. Hope you get over your bug quick smart.

hey satya, thank you.. still no AF.. praying for its arrival. how sad! hehehehe decided im going to do something for myself and do a 7 day detox :)

so i have found myself in a similar situation....and while searching the web for others going through the same thing i found this thread.........i am 3 weeks late my last period was september 8th give or a take a day...and i was expecting my last on the 6th of Oct...but still not here....i have taken 3 tests all negative ...today being my latest... i had been on birth control for 7 years ...until last march when i decided to stop...have switched to just condoms which has been working well....for the most part...my partner and i do have unprotected sex from time to time....where he always pulls out....which i realize is not fool proof ...so theres a definite possibility that i could be pregnant. my cycles have been a little longer since i stopped taking bc. they were 28..and now they are around 30/31 days ...but never 3 weeks late. i have been keeping a mental log of weird things happening...on 0ct 18 ...cycle day 40 i had major cramping and was constantly visiting the restroom because i kept thinking af was there...but nothing. i feel sensations of tugging in my abdomen and oct 19 i was in the worst mood i have been ever just super annoyed and bursting into tears for no reason. ...was assuming my af was coming....i was thinking this could be because i'm no longer on bc but i've been off for 7 months and my cycle has been pretty consistant since i've stopped........anyway its all really confusing and i just hope i get my AF or a + test so that i can set my mind at ease. keep me posted on your events and i'll try to do the same.

hey there marissarc! nice to meet you.. thank you for your situation.. makes me feel a little better considering i ended up at the dr's and every thing..
although there are alot of mums on here that have said it sounds like my cycle is out of wack.. i still havent had my period which means it has been 56 days since the first day of my last AF!!!
as u can see i have been rather pacient..
my dr said if it doesnt come in about a week i shud do another test.. so thinking friday morning i should do a test. my dr seems to think taht maybe we have tested too early and taht im actually not ovulating 14 days after the first day of my period.. meaning that my cycle is longer. a friend of mine fell pregnant on a 7 week cycle! which could mean she ovulated on week 5. (approx)
its very confusing and am determined to keep others up to date with my siutation because although the books say when you should ovulate.. it seems there are alot of ladies that come across this situation.
and although being on the pill for so long me (9 years) u can actually fall straight away.. (although not always the case though)
hope to get my AF really soon its begining to become annoying.. my stomach constantly feels bloated!! i am getting pulls still but cud b my af.. but my boobs are tingly.. but then ive been working out at the gym so not sure if thats jst sore muscles.. i think its hard to go off symptoms tho because so ive been told from other ladies on here.. you wouldnt be getting some of the symptoms so early on.. so i think its easy to think they are a symptom but really we are just thinking about it way too much!
my cycle also has been a little longer each month but only about a week.. nothing more!
werid! please keep me posted.. i feel like an idiot ending up at the dr and stuff.

Amsta did you get AF yet? or are you still waiting?

Rachel - hows everything with you? I thought a HCG reading of over 5 is a pregnancy?


**Prayingforabub**

hey there prayingforabub..

thanks for your interest! means a lot to me.. no af yet.. going good thanks.. was thinkjing about doing the 'quck cleanse' but maybe not a great idea until i get my af?
are you trying???

yes rachel.. an update? how did you go?

Hey Amsta,

Wow what a long cycle!! Unless you are preggas!! Why wont they do a blood test? that would be the best way to find out.
I wouldnt do a cleanse as you may be pregnant and it may harm the baby.

Yes me and my fiance are trying for our first. We have been trying for about 9-10 months now without any luck. He has just gone for a sperm test and has come back with some abnormalities and has to be retested. We are prepared to go for iui if we have to, so long as we get the baby we want so much.

When are you going back to the drs?


**Prayingforabub**

hey there,

im sorry to hear that youve been trying for sooo long!! it must be hard.. by abnormalities do you mean taht he has a low count?
they did do a blood test and its neg.. did a HPT this morning and its neg aswell.. so i dont kno what my body is doing.. im guessing that im defo not UTD.. but as to what else is happening i ahve no idea!!!
will prolly go bak to the dr's next week.