Confused on this

**soul** · October 7th, 2007, 05:22 PM

We are ttc now, and since I have had Phoenix six and a half months ago I have not had a AF and not had any sign to tell me if I am still ovulating or not.

BUT today, I wake up with excitment of our 18th year anniversary and we sit and discuss my drream of last night. I dreamt that I was pregnant and I could even feel the babies moving around, I never actually phyiscally feel things in dreams but did this one, but I was pregnant with twins so that bit was a bit far fetched. Anyways, minutes after telling hubbie my dream the phone rings its my mother. She tells me that she had a dream last night I was pregnant. I couldnt believe it.

Anyway, I go to loo a little while after and on the loo paper there is heaps of this ewcm. So this should mean I am in my fertile time is that right? Should I be getting that when I am BF though? And we could do the deed today but could tomorrow so would that mean we would have missed the window and opportunity for concieving this month?

**{sarah}** · October 7th, 2007, 05:30 PM

Okily dokily.... EWCM is definitely a sign of ovulating. You can ovulate while breastfeeding absolutely, even before getting your first period back. My guess would be that things are starting to happen for you Soul, so get to it

As for missing the chance, it's a maybe / maybe not situation. Some women get EWCM only for one day when they are ovulating while others (like me) can get it for a few days, slowly building up in quantity.

Good luck

**mrsmac** · October 7th, 2007, 05:34 PM

Good luck Soul!!!!

**soul** · October 7th, 2007, 05:37 PM

OMG OMG OMG WHOO HOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

So that is Definatley ovualtion stuff?????

I did not know I could get that while BF. wow

I use to get it for about 6 days when I was ttc Phoenix.

I cant DTD now because all the kids are here, they are all going out tomorrow though. Damn now I am worried I will miss the window, just my luck too.

**AmandaJ** · October 7th, 2007, 05:52 PM

Can you maybe DTD quitely tonight, lol.

hugs xoxo

**{sarah}** · October 7th, 2007, 05:56 PM

If you got it for 6 days will TTC before, you can expect it to be fairly similar this time too

**mrsmac** · October 7th, 2007, 05:58 PM

Send them to the movies or out anywhere!!!!!!

**soul** · October 7th, 2007, 06:05 PM

I think you are right sarah, as today seemed to be that first day type of ewcm,kwim?

LMAO at you others, oh I "WISH" but cant send a 3 years old and a 7 and 10 year old with the other two, DAMN IT!!!

I need to run and jump those bones of his, but how the heck do I do that with five knowing kids around????

Even when they are all alseep, one is right next door in the nursry because she has been getting her asthma really bad so she is down this end of the house with us.

I need to come up with something creative but what????

The kids never leave my sight, no joke they are with me in every room I go into, yap yap yapping away god love em.

**{sarah}** · October 7th, 2007, 06:23 PM

Do it on the floor quickie style when all the kids so they're no squeaky beds

**soul** · October 7th, 2007, 06:28 PM

LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO now how am I suppose to do that after you just said this, I will be in the middle of it and burst out laughing thinking about what sarah said and blow it all not to mention deadend the mood!! omg lmao Plus if he asks me what is so funny and I yell out sarah, thats got to look bad!!! Might be a fantasy for him, but ewwwwww for me!!! Ok off topic

Hmmmmm we havent much room on the floor as my bed is big and room is longer more than wide.

K this has become a "How to do" rather than when to do!

**{sarah}** · October 7th, 2007, 06:53 PM

Hahahaha! That would be quite funny Soul!

**mrsmac** · October 7th, 2007, 08:18 PM

PMSL this is so funny. We have a 2 storey house which is good cause you can't hear anything downstairs!! Its amazing how many afternoon "naps" we have on weekends LOL Just stuff a sock in your mouth to cut down on the noise and go into the shower!!