Crash course in............ejaculation!

[Vixstar]

Okay, I am not a bloke...for obvious reasons. Alert prolly tmi coming up!

So, we all know what an ejaculation is right, buuuuut can any little *boys* still escape and the man not be aware of it?

DH says he is careful (he just pulls out at the apparent right time) but how careful is careful? I have had a look some www's but they just go on about the - & +'s of nat family planning blah blah blah.....

Gawd, I can't believe at the tender age of 36 and after two kids I am asking this!!!

Anybodeeee?????

xxxx

[ubba82]

Yes, some swimmers can come out before ejaculation.

[LaDeeDa]

DH has 4 brothers and sisters because of this method

[Trillian]

Yep, I was laughed at by my GP when I told him we were using withdrawal as a method of contraception...

[DaintreeDream]

Yes they definatly CAN and do escape! Therefore why they say that withdrawl is not a safe way of protecting against pregnancy.

[willow5]

Ah yeah got to be the worst form of birth control!!!

And guys will say it's ok but they aren't always aware of a leakage that can occur waaayyy before the actual big ending ejaculation!!!!

Good luck

[Vixstar]

Cool! So, then my next question is for those ttc (we are playing russian roulette, not really ttc nor prevent!) is that after dtd, you would not really be able to tell between your own cm and his *goop* as his would be minimal right????


Just getting my facts straight and hoping, praying like crazy I get a BFP (as AF is late!!!) and can say to him - careful? Nope! Surprised? Yes!

xxxx

BTW I knew it wasn't safe but after a yr of using it, lucks gotta run out some time hey!! lmao

[Trillian]

You can tell the difference between sperm and cm as the sperm is quite stretchy and stringy, but cm is not, unless you have the lights off of course. It really depends on how much there can be - if you've been doing it every night then sometimes there may not be as much as there can be when he's not done it for a few days but it only takes 1.....

[rustygirl]

You can feel the difference between his *goop* and your cm. His feels grainy and yours will feel silky if that makes any sense?!?!?

Good luck.

[ttcanxiety]

when guys release pre c u m little swimmers cna escape in that and they can also leak out at any time.
Good luck with bfp?

[willow5]

Cool! So, then my next question is for those ttc (we are playing russian roulette, not really ttc nor prevent!) is that after dtd, you would not really be able to tell between your own cm and his *goop* as his would be minimal right????

I'm guessing you're meaning after DTD and he has pulled out? Yeah then you may not be able to tell the difference between his and yours cos any of his would be minimal.

Good luck with BFP