did anyone else have the urge to TTC so soon after VBAC!

[Me+him+bub]

I NEVER thought I would want another child after the horrible pregnancies and vomiting I had with my 2 sons and the stressful deliveries of both but for some reason I want to do it again! ALREADY! DF does too! the day after Marcus was born he wanted to have another 1 or 2 he said! yes I do want to do it again but it is not practical just yet, we want to get married and buy a home first but we both have this strong urge and I am jealous of all my pregnant friends! my DS2 is not even 3 weeks old yet! not to mention DF has been hounding me for sex since we got home from the hospital and he thinks it is some subconscious urge to impregnate me! very strange! of course we haven't "done it" as I have a tear but has anyone else and their partners experienced this urge? do you think it was because we got our VBAC that we are still happy about that or are we just weirdos?

[Curlygirly]

Lol, if you are weirdo's then so are we hun I had a c section 12 weeks ago and my Dh and I can't wait to have another bub. It almost becomes addictive and my DH was the same feeling the urge. Ofcourse I will be reframing myself due to the c section healing, financial reasons and want to give my daughter 100% of our attention but it is like that and I am looking forward to the future babies and miss my pregnant belly too.

It's up to you both but it sounds as though once you get married, set up a home etc then it will become more practical to branch out and have more. I suggest enjoy your time with DS2 and when you can DTD have fun with being intimate with your DF and put the urge on hold until it is the right time. Trust me I understand....pregnancy is such a awesome time of our lives.x

[Bella29]

6 days after my dd was born I wanted to get pregnant again. My DH thought I was mad considering I had had a rough pregnancy with her. .

[Bengal]

My story is a little different, though I can relate

I swore I would never try and get pregnant again when I was stuck in bed for weeks with the MS, even if the unthinkable happened and I miscarried early, no way would I do an FET. Now that the MS has gone, Im allready thinking oh we still have frosties, I might go back, and I havent even delivered yet :-)

So hun, if your a weirdo so am I

[Me+him+bub]

oh good we aren't insane then! we would love four all together but we have another good 10 years left to do it in! they both drove me insane today though so it has sure helped me put it all on hold for a few years!