Yep! In my mind i have said we are ttc.
End of story, lol.
I just posted in your uh oh thread, Fingers crossed for you.
Watch this space for me.......
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Yep! In my mind i have said we are ttc.
End of story, lol.
I just posted in your uh oh thread, Fingers crossed for you.
Watch this space for me.......
Update...
Well not really much of an update, we have not dtd in a while as hubby has been so tired from his job, bummer really.
But...
I am not due for my af for at least 12 days if i have a 28 day cycle, i am not sure what my cycle is as this is the first real one since comming of the pill and last month, i missed some pills and then took them and ended up with af for 3 weeks, it was over for 3 days when i got my af on dec 1, that lasted for 5 days, anyway, i am cramping big time, i dont usually cramp until my af is due, so im wondering if i could be utd, but i only dtd 3 times, once on the 6th, the 9th and the 13th of dec, could it possiable?
I got a test but not sure if i should use it or not?
Ok so this morning i got sprung doing a hpt, by my dear hubby, it was a bfn, which i was not suprised about.
I have had period like cramps for 3 days in a row and yesterday and the day before i felt bloated, so i dont know whats going on.
LOL @ being sprung doing a HPT... darl, my man knows if i am "****ing in a cup " as he calls it, because i close the toilet door hahahaha with the 2 kids, never leaving me alone at home i never get to close the door, but if i do a hpt i put my foot down and close the door.... hahah we always knows what im doing! :P
AFY- hmmmmm i dont think a HPT would show anything atm, sounds to me like your body is adjusting to being off the pill. How long were you on it for?
Hey mmm, i was only on the pill less than 7 months this time and like i said pp, i missed some last month, at least the test showed that i didnt get utd the day after my af, so still means im in for a shot with the 13th.
I just could not help myself this morning, it was 5am and i had to pee, lol, i also shut the toilet door and he heard the wrapper comming off the fr box.
When i got back to bed he said 'so was it 2 lines'. omg.
The only time i ever really get cramps is when im on my af or utd, you think i would know all the symptoms by now, this will be my 7 pregnancy, but 6th baby, ahh.
LOL yes, well... after that many babie's MDear you'd think so! ha ha ha
It is likely for sure...
Do u think this period like pain could be implantation or something?
I dont ever remember having that before, but tbh i never really paid attention to my body till now.
It would be nice to have a bfp for xmas :pray:
well, anything is possible.... BUT, being the cycle youve had id be surprised... HOWEVER, in saying that, who knows!
God knows im no expert, look at how confusing my body is/has been for me.... so who knows!
lol
a BFP for xmas would be amazing.... :D
Silly me, i think i know what that pain was, i ovulated this morning!
Good timing as well, we dtd again last night, so i can say i am in the two week wait!!!!:dance:
I new i ovulate on or around day 19, and today is day 18, so very close.
Man this whole not ttc, but are ttc thing has just messed with my brain, hubby almost said last night that we were ttc, but instead called it 'hop' heat of pashion.men:o
So ladies jan 1 is testing time, oh i hope i can hang on that long.
I just want to be utd......watch this space.:pray:
All the best with the TWW!! :bluedust:
Well i bought a 3 pack of hpt, cause they were on sale, hubby rolled his eyes!
Now all i think about is whats the earliest i can test.
LOL it will fly by. :D
Very exciting :D
Lol- this is a very funny thread!!
Men are so hopeless when it comes to their pen**- everything they say they want just goes RIGHT out the window!!! If it were me, and I was wanting to be UTD- I would just be saying 'stuff it'- if he can't take responsibility to avoid getting you UTD in the bedroom- then somewhere in his mind he has to be aware that you getting UTD is a possibility- IYKWIM? So in a way, he IS giving you the green light, by not really following through with what he claims he wants.
I would just forget about it, have fun and see what happens. He knows you are off the pill- and that it was messing with your health, so he is fully aware the responsibility befalls on him to put a condom on. If he doesn't- well, he has to be prepared for the possibility of a BFP!!! he he..... I mean, I think, if he really wanted to avoid a BFP THAT badly- he wouldn't take those risks- IYKWIM???
LOL well, we are in this 2WW together M'Dear... :D
Our officially started today... i have O'd earlier than expected but to be honest not surprised being the drama with my last early AF lol
So when do you test Lisa? new years day?
I will test as of 5th i think.. (unless the POAS monster bites me earlier ha ha ha)
Wow congrats MissyMooMoo, i will be testing on the 1 jan, although i did test today, only 5 dpo, but i woke up feeling really sick, turns out i picked up the kids virus. lol, oh well.
Good luck to you :dance:
woohoo... few more days and i reckon you'll be bringing home a :bfp:
Lets hope im not far behiind you darls! :hug:
Hi everyone, just cheacking in to see how we all fared after xmas, i caved and tested xmas day, even though i said i wasnt going to and then i caved and tested again today about 8-9dpo of course both days bfn, i was feeling slightly off both theses times but appears not to be from pregnancy, oh well still have a few days left before i can officially say its over.
At least i dont need to worry in the bedroom anymore, even though he still has not said that we are ttc, we dont even discuss the use of protection anymore, we just do our thing.
I feel calm today, the last few days i felt icky (gas and wind) think i ate to much at xmas,im having a chardonay atm, just trying to access all the things that went wrong over the last 2 weeks or so, in the same week the water cooler died as did the microwave and the vacume, all 7 of us caught the virus and were sick, etc...so hopeing that 2009 brings some really good things for us. The only 2 good things to come from 2008 are my beautiful baby boy and mr rudds surplus payment, lol.
Heres hoping that i have some good news to report soon.
Lisa, can i add one more thing that is a bonus from 2008?? YOUR ALL HEALTHY AND ALIVE!!
Anyhow, so sorry things have been so carppy for ya hun.... :hug: lol @ testing... i am actually surprised i am being really good.. mind you i am like 6 DPO so it would be so pointless ha ha ha ha.. i know i am really feeling gassy kinda, and some pain i dont normally get below so i am thinking we have been successful, i dunno i just feel we have but i could be wrong lol.. next week will tell me more!
I bought some HPT's while shopping last night, DF said to me on the drive home "now dont go and POAS tonight will you?!" i laughed and just said i wasnt planning on it, i am waiting until im atleast 8DPO.. then i will do one every day until my AF shows or i am definately UTD! :D i just wanna see what is the earliest i can get a :bfp: ....
Lisa, you reckon this will be it for you guys after #6? I have been thinking heaps about whether i will want #4 and i am positive i will... tbh i reckon id happily go further but i know #4 is the limit for DF..well, so he says! :P ha ha ha
Ok well better scoot and do some chores! :D
:hug:
p.s this is a stupid question but, when you count your DPO, do you count from the day AFTER O or is the day you O, counted as 1? (told ya was a silly one lol )
I think last night i was a little less than positive, but yes you are right, we are all alive and healthy, my bil is 27 and batteling cancer so compared to that my family are all really good.:
And i was wondering the same thing, i have been counting the day after as day 1, and was not sure if that was right or not?
Well im out of hpt and am trying so hard not to but any more, im trying to tell myself that it took 7 months to concieve hunter, but emmerson happened on 1 night, so anything is possiable.
I do not drive so at this stage hubby has said that 6 is it, but if i get my lience we can look at having more, i would like 8, who knows if i would stop at 8 though, its funny really as i only wanted 2 kids and hubby told his mum he was not having kids at all, life changes once you have one.
And he did it .................................................. ............................................
he finally said
we are trying to concieve! yay he had been drinking and was laughing, but ill take it!!!
gotta do t will be back later.........................................
:jawdrop:
:happyforyou: :happyforyou: :happyforyou:
FINALLY Lisa, FINALLY!!!!!!!! lol
EIGHT??? wow hunni, and OMG :o you have 5 already and you dont drive?!! how do you cope with that?? id go insane. My licence expired on the 1st of dec and just due to the normal crap i havent had a chance to renew it, of the last 2 weeks we have been playing it safe with DF driving me everywhere ...OMG I have gone insane relying on him... i HNFI how you do it! Good on you though! lol
Well, i might go and post and ask about the ovulation thing, cause i wanna know am i 5 or 6 DPO :P hehehehehe
Least it isnt just me phew :dance:
well i m starting to fel icky as i sit here and type but that could be because i just ate some delites and they tasted funny, lol.
I haate the constant, 'what does this feeling ' mean, i just cant wait to find out either way, although, if af does arrive, i have to do this tww again, i think it will kill me.:rolleyes:
Hubby reckons that he only said we were in the tww to shut me up, i told him to late you said it. We laughed about it, he said go on post to your buddies, lol.
3 more days till testing time.............................................. ....:pray:
how many DPO does that make ya hun?
I am gonna test in 2 days, that will have me at 8DPO! I am fully expecting a BFN but, it is part of the little trial i am doing lol, seeing how early i can get a BFP if at all ehehehe...
So tell me lovey, of your beautiful brood who is boy and girl? lol.. these days it is never safe to go by name so i dare not presume lol... but i do love your names... they are all slightly left of field, awesome and gorgeous, but not enough to be weird. People generally love our two names, although i only have ever had 2 negatives for my DD's and so far none of my DS's.... lol
I am 11dpo today and just dying to poas.
I just gave hubby some $$$, as he is heading up to the shop to but diner items.
This will be my 7 pregnancy and 6 baby, i lost my first pregnancy at 11 weeks and as it was early never got to find out the gender, i always thought it was a boy, for some reason.
Atm i have 3 girls, Grace Ellen is 7, she will be 8 in june and is such a fantastic little helper, she is like a mini mummy, she is our dancer and we spend 5 days a week at dance class, and most weekends are at dance displays, our 2nd girl is Bailea Ella, she is a drama queen and what a story teller, just makes you smile listening to her, Bailea is 3 and will be 4 in june, then the last of the girls, well Emmerson Elloise has just turned 2, she will be 3 in November 09, emme is a little cheeky monkey, she smiles and it melts your heart, but she is sneaky and has to be watched.
Then there are the 2 boys, Hunter Harryjohn, is 5 and will be 6 in july, he makes the girls lives a misery and makes that his mission, but he also has a softer side and takes care of his little brother, which brings me to Kainne Markandrew, he is 9 months, he will be 1 in march, he is my everything, they told me he was not viable and to expect a m/c, i made it to 38 weeks and he is just so divine.
Grace knows that we will probably have another baby, and she is keen for it to happen, she was there at Kainnes birth, and wants to do it again, as for the other kids i think they will be excited when they find out that i have a baby in my tummy. (when it happens).
WOW, i loved reading all about your little ones.. how precious.. each of them so different hey. Bringing there own to the family!
Well, i caved... did one tonight.. BFN.. i knew it would be. I wish i hadnt wasted a test! lol
What brand do you use lisa?
I have bought first reponse but im thinking of going and getting a different brand too.. maybe pregnosis?!
Ahhhh ok now i am over waiting lol
I use first responce and am tottally bumed out as well i just caved and tested and it was a bfn, i dont think it will change in 3 days, i had tingling boobies and thought yes, but it looks like no, im just gonna look at the test again, brb.........................................no it definatley looks like a no.
I actually feel like crying how silly, and i am feeling a little crampy now.
Can it change in 3 days?
:hug:
It can change in 3 days BUT, you may not have implanted that long ago... hence the crampy pains. I am having crampy pains too, and alot of lower back ache so....
ARGH my DD is doing our heads in.... this time of night can be hell! ha ha ha
Hubby just said that is the reason why he would not admit that we were ttc, he did not want me waiting each month and getting disapointed. ahh i feel like bawling.
awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
:hug: to hubby, what a sweetie!
All this time we were attacking him for being a damn power playing male, when really he was just trying to save you this. LOL.... he should of just said that lol
MEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hi ladies, sorry for butting in:redface: I have just read through your posts and wanted to pop in and wish you both all the luck in the world..... and tell you not to give up hope.
When I was in the ttw I tested at 14 dpo and got a :bfn: then af had not arrived by 18 dpo so tested again and got our much wanted :bfp: could not believe it... so hang in there and :pray: you get your :bfp:
hang in there ladies.
i totally understand.
DH didnt want anymore kinds he said 2 was enough, but we are trying and it all came about from me having issues on the pill and basically bleeding constantly, so eh said juts stop taking teh bloody thing.
i asked about protection he said meh dont worry we will see what happens.
now 18-19 DPO depnds if you count the day you ovulate or the first day after ???
so men are just confusing.
now im racking my brain and doing my head in wondering if i am pregnant but i will have the answer tomorrow arvo.
hey kell, welcome :D
count as of the day AFTER O!!! :)
Very exciting for you! :D
ok glad that is cleared up lol
when you questioned it before it got me thinking.
lol
hubby is being very quiet now.
and when i told him my doc thought i had a high chance of being pg he just said oh really ok. then continued to cook dinner, no kiss hello nothing and he ahs been really quiet all night ... oops
Thanks onemore and kellz, im going crazy, i keep thinking now i know that i am officially ttc, if i dont get utd this cycle, im going to have to do the whole tww again and thats going to drive me even more nuts, why cant this just be easy.
kell, let him process it, he may not have expected it to happen so quick... so just let him process it....
men are funny how they handle all this stuff... Lisa's hubby is proof of that hahahah :P in a sweet ofcourse lisa :hug:
Ladies, firstly GOOD LUCK to all of you on your 2WW!
I have been reading this thread with much interest, as my #4 bub is only 5 months old and I am sooooooooo clucky, and so want to have another baby, but my DP has also been sending mixed messages .... saying no more, but not exactly being careful in the bedroom .... :rolleyes: As I am still b/f-ing I don't have AF as yet, but am pretty sure I have resumed O-ing
Lisa - are we crazy, wanting to have so many kids?? My life would not be complete without my kids, and even though they argue, fight, all talk at once etc, they also come and hug you out of nowhere, say I love you all the time and have the most infectious laughs!
I really think men don't know what they want, and I don't think they realise how important it is for us to want more children without having a reason, without having to explain or justify why!
I hope we ALL have some good news soon!!!!!! ;)
Thats how i feel, i could just keep going on till my body gave in, we will just have to see what happens after #6, i do know that i need a bigger house. I just dont feel complete, i feel like i have so much love to give and i love being pregnant, even though i have had problems. I love my kids fights and all.:
OMG Lisa!! Me too -I have had so many probs during pregnancy, but I love being pregnant (even though the last few weeks are torture!!) and then holding this little baby minutes after giving birth and feeling so much love. I don't feel like my family is complete, kids, cats and all!
Just reading the part where you said "then holding this little baby minutes after giving birth", oh my i got chills, i am so hoping this turns out , that is my favourite part after giving birth, seeing my little bubba for the first time.:
Imagine if i dont get utd, this thread could get huge, lol.