I'm going insane!

I conceived my daughter three years ago now, with fertility assistance. We visited the specialist at the start of this month, who took some tests and assured me that since my cycles are now miraculously regular, we shouldn't have much trouble conceiving naturally. She took an internal ultrasound which showed that ovulation was imminent. I used the ovulation predictor tests and hubby and I had sex for three days in a row (as instructed) and then some. I am now 10dpo.

Because I so desperately want another baby, I am finely tuned in to my body! And since ovulation, I've had crampy pains, not like period pains, more like a tugging every so often. Yet since Monday, it's kind of felt like my period is coming (which I never feel a whole WEEK beforehand). I've had increased cervical mucous. I've gone off my coffee completely (and if you know me, you KNOW how much I love my coffee!). And the part I dislike the least - I am incredibly bloated.

It's killing me that if I took a test now, it probably wouldn't show anything. I know I need to wait until probably Sunday, as my period should be due on Monday. But I've got my hopes up SO high, that I'll be devastated if I'm not pregnant. I don't know if I've just created a phantom pregnancy though, because I want it so badly.

Did anyone have similar symptoms after ovulation and then actually turn out to be pregnant?!