ok, here is a noob question i really should know, (esp, in my line of work but it is slightly different then)..
when you guys check your cervix, to see if it is hard or sof, do you check at the opening or anywhere you can feel it, because i was checking mine today and it felt hard, but then i felt around a little bit more and found the openening, which was soft.

I've only been checking my own cervix for about a week or so so still getting to 'know' it.

thanks in advance!!!