No periods but negative tests.... help please

[Skippy09]

Hello

[Skippy09]

Hello again,

I just need a bit of advice and some hope (or clarification that i'm not going mad)

I'm 38 and miscarried Jan 19th this year- devestating- had my LMP on Feb 23rd and haven't had one since. I have no idea when my March period was due as my cycles have been anywhere from 30-35-42 days???

As my partner is O/s I went over there for 3 weeks and have done 5 (yes 5) hpt since I returned on the 18th March and they were all negative- Could be due to changing time zones etc, but I am praying it may be because the hcg levels are too low.

When I was pg in Jan, I didn't get a BFP until Dec 31 around 22 days after conception... according to my dating scan I had.

So I haven't had a period for 44 days, but apart from being tired,unusually wonderfully calm (happy) and had increased desire to pee and increased cm (sorry if TMI) there are no other symptoms.... like the sore boobs.

I'm scared of getting another BFN- we really want this baby and cannot try again until end of June...and I feel like the time is against us.... yes I had a doctor telling me I was so old to have a baby and my chance of miscarriage was so high due to age....

Anyway, any thoughts or suggestions are greatly appreciated. Thanks for your support.

[DaintreeDream]

I believe that you can ovulate later after a miscarriage so this may make your period come later also. I suggest you go to see a GP, they can do a blood test to see your HCG levels and confirm if you are pregnant or not.

for you, I hope that the test comes back positive for you.

[Skippy09]

Thank you so much for your support.

I did go to the doctor today -who was lovely -and explained the situation. They decided to do a blood test to check the hcg levels, so I am hoping to get the results tomorrow afternoon.... at least before Easter.

Fingers crossed it's a BFP

[DaintreeDream]

Good luck with your BT results I have my for you.

What a lovely Easter pressie that would be.

[DaintreeDream]

Not sure if you would have got the results back yet from your BT, just wanted to let you know that I still have my fingers crossed for you. I hope everything is ok .