Hiya sweetpeajan....

Not sure about its effect on gender swaying, sorry (as I think BD timing and diet have more of an impact, yeah?) but Sylk would be fine to use TTC. If you want to try something different to Preseed, another option is Samsar Conceive Plus. I got it online but pharmacies and Priceline stock it too. Big tube and good value for money.

Others might be able to offer more detailed advice.

Hope you get your little gal!