oh really, ivf is pretty big, i am currently doing my second round of ivf

i suppose its the way you look at it, i done 4 IUI's and they were a waist of money ( in my opinion) at least with ivf you know that the sperm and the egg are meeting and doing what they have to do, its just a matter of getting them to stick! where as with iui's you have no idea if the egg and sperm are even meeting if you know what i am trying to say??

but then on the other hand iui's DO work bg is living proof of that, plus its not as demanding on your body or your budget, iui's are alot easier then ivf thats for sure

so really there is alot of pro's and con's and it sounds like its been a big few days for you! is there a reason why your fs is not going to give you guys a go with iui? i dont really know your history or problems