i dont know weather i can really comment as i am doing ivf for baby #2, baby #1 was a natural miracle.
but i can honestly say for me, its harder cos you know how wonderful it is to have a baby and when its not happening it really hits hard! you then feel bad for feeling sorry for yourself cos you already have a child so you sort of feel that you dont have a right to feel devastated IYKWIM, then you have people say " oh but at least you have one" that still doesnt make it hurt any less!!
it really makes you appreciate what you have, but then it breaks your heart cos you know how special it is and you would do anything to have that again.
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