I am 23 and recently married to a wonderful husband and we are both Christian.

We both waited til marriage to have sex which is something we both wanted to do. I lost my mom when I was 10 and I knew she would have wanted me to wait. I was lucky enough ( in this day and age ) to find a wonderful man who was also waiting. Maybe this was a blessing from my mom.

We are now starting to think about a family but my question is and doing some reading on conception is that if a woman needs to have a orgasm in order to concieve. I read that when a woman has a orgasm, that her uterus contracts which pushes the sperm into the uterus and this is how conception happens.

It's been about 5 months and I don't think I have experienced a orgasm so I am feeling down and depressed that this might avoid me from getting pregnant.

Please help, sorry about the TMI but I don't know who I can turn too. I tried a nurse but when I was about to open up, I was too embarrised and avoided the question


Cathy