i went to my GP and got a referral to see a lapband surgeon. I will make an appt tomorrow.
Good point about PCOS. I will make sure i ask him about the procedure vs PCOS.
We have a guy at work, who does the milkshake/hot chocolate thing whilst having the lapband. He hasn't lost any weight for the 4 years i've known him.
My weight/appearance is a major trigger in my depression. Cailin told me this, and it is so true. I couldn't see it, but when she said it, i was there shaking my head. When i am light/skinnier, i have enough confidence, that i could be president. I have so much energy that i could run a marathon. But now, i have no confidence or energy. I am hiding from people, because i don't want them to see how much weight i have gained since September/October 2009. I am so ashamed, yet so happy ITMS. I know true friends will not judge on my appearance, but tell that to my brain.
One side of me is saying, dont go and the other side, is saying go. Dh is so against it.

How much out of pocket are your if you have PHI?