So after having my second child I could not for the life of me lose the extra weight ( 15 kgs ) I went to see a hypnotherapist in the city had 3 sessions and it helped a bit but not much so a friend of mine recommended a lady that does virtual lap band and boy did it make a difference! I had 4 sessions with her and instantly started losing the weight as i physically could not each as much she had actually convinced me that I had the surgery. I have already lost 9 kgs and hoping the rest comes off, why is this secret not out there i wish i had known about it earlier. Anyway just wanted to share my experience and say if your finding it hard to lose the weight go get virtual lap band done