Non existent. I used to be like you. I used to be quite anal about the cleanliness of my home. Then I had kids. I used to get so stressed about it, and couldn't cope with it at all. I had PND and just couldn't cope, I felt like I was a SAHM and *should* be able to do it all. Then when we moved, I made good friends with other mums and saw that their houses looked just like mine most of the time. It's made me feel normal. It's made me realise that I shoudl stop worrying about the mess because it will all still be there later. But the opportunities to play with and enjoy my babies and the opportunities to learn and grow and teach with them would be gone in an instant.


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