Just looking to hear other people's experiences of how you decided to use a sperm donor, and how you reconciled any issues you had with it?

DH has severe MFI and we have just found out from his SCSA that he has too high DNA damage as well, so after 8 IVF cycles, it may be time to move on to trying donor sperm.

Did you use a known or anonymous donor? Did you do it through a clinic or DIY? If you had done IVF previously, would you go back to trying IUI with donor sperm or stick with IVF? How did your partner feel about it ? And any regrets?

Thanks in advance, I'm feeling really conflicted about everything.