Thankyou for the replies & the info.. I really hate needles but im sure i will cope fine knowing that im giving a couple a chance to have their own child.

Sorry what I had meant when I said the legal considerations would be what we would do, want/ they want regarding a possible child as a result of my donation. We have talked about that (DH & Myself) & myself and the couple..which we will talk more about tomorrow.

They have said they want me to be in the childs life as much as I want to be, i can visit etc.. I told them i wasnt comfortable with that (god i hope I didnt sound rude) & if they didnt mind the only thing I wanted to know was if the donation was succesful & maybe an email to say that they have had the baby but I didnt want to know details. (I really sound horrible dont I?)
I just think if i were to see to see the child etc that my emotions might get involved knowing that I am the childs biological mother.
If the child then found me once it was 18 then DH and I wouldn turn it away but I wouldnt be taking on the "mother" role because I wouldnt be this childs mother..this lady would be (Sorry prob not making much sense, I can never put things the way I wanna say it)