Apart from the fact that I myself am extremely anxious that my 8mo Velcro baby and 2yo ds will be starting daycare 3dsys a week net week how do I help ease them into it ds has already been doing 1day a week this year so I'm not too concerned about him but I'm worried about dd she is very clingy and I have PND so my anxiety about letting them both go is through the roof should I just put her straight in for the whole day or build her up to it and start with a few hours or something??