No worries TB!

I'd actually seen your site as part of my 'research' into the whole thing and it was really good.

Baby is still cooking so we'll see how it works but I was at a friends house the other day and after a feed, her 5 week old was really squirming and complaining, I asked her if she want's me to walk her or burp her or something and my friend replied that no, that's just the way she acts when she's going to poop in a few minutes and so she just had to let her fuss and squirm for 5 mins until the poop comes out and then she can change her.....I didn't bring up EC again with her at that point as I don't want to lecture her and we'd talked about it before her baby came and she thought it was too hard to bother with ..... then to see her baby so obviously telling her that she needed to poop and having her just accept that she would fuss and be unhappy until she did poop seemed so counter logical to me...ah well, I'll see if it will work for us.