I have a 4 week old who's still in NICU. She was 11 weeks premature.
I was originally expressing every 3 hours during the day and every 4 during the night. I was getting around 300 to 400ml a day...
My supply has dropped over the past week. Now I'm lucky to get 200 or even 250ml.
I just hope my supply isn't dropping because its stopping completely. I'm eating healthily, drinking plenty of water, made lactation cookies, tried different pumps and tried double pumping. My LC at the hospital suggested pumping more so the demand comes and then the supply would come. But unfortunately its not. I've been expressing every 2 hours during the day and every 3 to 4 at night.
I don't know what else to do. She needs my milk to grow... To get strong.
it's a tough gig expressing for a little one in NICU - you are really doing well. What sort of pump are you using? You need a hosital grade rental pump like a symphony. Apart from that, ask to do kangaroo care with her - skin to skin wherever possible. Just remember, the more you take out the more you will make. Ask your health care providers about getting a script for motilium
As always barb is great and your hospital LC sounds supportive. Sorry to go against OP but I wouldn't add to the night feeds, you being over tired and stressed won't help matters at all. In fact I'd probably suggest you have one night of at least a six hour stretch to recharge and pump no more than 2nd hourly. Skin to skin is the answer and it won't be long until she is on suck feeds. Your supply will sky rocket the more she feeds.
You are doing a brilliant job for your daughter. You should be so proud!
I just feel its the only thing I can do for her right now. She is over an hour away in hospital so I can't hold her unless her cares are due. I've been looking at pictures of her non stop and I have some things of hers eg clothing beanies and I try and have them around when I express.
As for the motilium, can you take that whilst on high amounts of blood pressure medications? And I have a medela symphony pump and the lactina set which includes the hand pump. I've also got the Philips Avent Isis Uno which seems to get more milk out than the Medela.
I'll try pumping even more overnight. I'll try anything. I don't want to lose my supply. I want to breastfeed when I get her home eventually.
firstly you are doing an awesome job, i have been through the NICU journey, it aint easy
my son was a 30wkr and has just turned 1 and is still breastfed but i, like you suffered supply issues, i started using motillium when L was about 4w as i too was getting lots the first few weeks then no matter how much i pumped i was getting less and less. (im unsure if you can take it with other meds tho check with your GP?)
the lactation cookies are good (eating the dough raw actually works better then cooked cookies, depends if you can stomach it)
have you tried taking blessed thistle and fenugreek capsules from the health food store? 3x fenugreek 3x a day and 3x BT 3x a day? it will make you smell like maple syrup lol
wishing you all the best for you and your LO's journey.
i know how hard it is being apart from your baby, its like a piece of your heart is missing
i hope its all smooth sailing for you, we have a few scary things (little bumps in the road) but L is now doing well, hes a little behind, even for his corrected age, but hes an absolute joy and his sisters adore him
Have you tried letting her have a little lick or suckle at the Breast during a cuddle.
From 32 weeks both my 28 and 25 weekers latched on...only for a very short time but they did suckle?
Speak to your nurse about if you can have a cuddle around feed time, if possible arrange for the LC to be there to help (Sandy was wonderful for me) If bub does not suck it is ok it is still early but even expressing a little and letting her have a lick can do wonders for your supply. While she is still laying near your breast get them to do the tube feed.
The closeness that both of you urgent is so beneficial, you may have to push a little, some nurses really encourage it, others are a bit more reluctant. The LC's are your best advocate.
I had a terrible supply with the pump, both bubs needed donated milk but once they could suckle things picked up and I BF for 7 months. Domperidone (motilium) did help my supply, again ask the nurse or LC and they can get the doctor to write a prescription which you can pick up from the hospital pharmacy.
Lyns - the motilium can sometimes increase blood pressure (it's used to treat the low blood pressure that is a side effect of Parkinson's medicines), but it works in a very specific way, so it depends on the mechanism of your other medicines and your high blood pressure. Maxalon is another medication that can increase milk production - though it is older and used less than motilium.
If your Dr says "no" then have a talk to Rodney Whyte at Monash Medical Centre, who is an expert on medicines and obstetrics/breastfeeding. His phone number is (03) 9594 2361.
Can you hand express out the last bit after expressing - even if you don't keep it, everything you get out is sending a signal to "make more".
Hunni you are doing a FANTASTIC job! When my boys were admitted to ICU at 7 weeks old my supply dropped dramatically, J was on CPAP so i had no choice but to pump as his NGT had obviously been put in, L was on a ventilator, intubated with a NGT so no chance of feeding there either.
I went from 200ml a pump to a measly 60ml no matter how much I expressed. I started taking motillium and noticed a little change, im still having supply issues and they are now 8 months old nearly just we have to mix feed which breaks my heart.
You are doing great though its a tough position to be in the added stress and lack of sleep dont help your supply but theres not much we can do is there. Just keep going the best you can, you are a great mummy to be doing this for her
Are you in contact with your local ABA group? They can arrange a hire pump for you. A really good one might make all the difference.
You're doing really, really well in very, very difficult circumstances. I'm sorry you're feeling really down about this - you brought your girl safely into the world and you continue to nourish and care for her the best way you can.
You're doing a great job! I second the advice Barb has given:
- use a Medela Symphony pump which you'll need to hire. I hired one from my local pharmacy on a monthly basis. I used it constantly for 3 months.
- get on the Motillium pronto! It's amazing the difference it makes. Obviously you'll need to check if it's ok to take it with your other meds but do just that, check with your doctor ASAP! I was taking 40mg of Nefedipine a day for severe nipple vasospasm and I was taking a high dose of Motillium without any issues.
- Fenugreek is also great (and natural) for helping boost your supply. I remember buying mine from a pharmacy on Rokeby Rd in Subi as I don't think it's available everywhere.
- pump more frequently. I know you said you're already doing this but it can take a good week of increased feeds/pumps before you see the effects of the extra work. Supply and demand is the key
Hang in there. Pumping is hard work, literally, and what you're going through is stressful enough. You're doing a wonderful job.
The nurses haven't yet let me see what happens when she's put near my breast. I really want to though. I need my supply to go up. I've got frozen EBM at the hospital and they are adding calories and fats to my milk to help her gain wait fast.
Ive also tried hot face towels over my boobies. No change.
It's frustrating me.
Am I doing this all wrong ? I can't even have a healthy pregnancy. I can't pump properly... I feel like a crappy mum. :'( i feel by pumping its all I can do for her right now.
aww hugs hun
you are doing an awesome job!!!
i too have walked in your shoes- i had twins at 30 weeks who had a 10% and 20% chance of survival
i found that my supply started to settle down at 4 weeks as well and had to work damn hard to keep it going.
but i did and i ended up expressing for 12 months!
blessed thistle tablets helped me so worth giving them a go- fenugreek did nothing for me
what also made a difference was my water intake and the time of day that i expressed. i always got more around in the AM hours than the PM hours so always tried to stock up and express 3 hourly overnight/morning and 4 hourly arvo. I also found that if i relaxed and read a book whilst i was expressing, then i would get more milk. also when you think you have got all the milk out, keep the machine on for a bit longer and see if you get another let down to happen!
also remember that your body is making enough milk for your bubbas needs now!! as she demands more your milk supply can go up as well. bubs are heaps better at getting milk out of boobies than machines!
The type of machine you use makes a big difference. For instance with a manual domestic machine I would get say 90mls but with a hospital grade machine i would get 120-150mls- so a big difference!!
this expressing is a hard gig but as you said, you at least feel like you are doing something to help!
if you want to chat at any time, please feel free to PM me!!
this is a tough gig that no one should have to go through- but we do and it does change you and shape you as a person. It certainly puts everything else into perspective. People that have healthy full term babies do not realise how lucky they are!!
hang in there hun and remember there are people here for you to support you!!!!
hugs
you've already done so much more than so many others do - keep patting yourself on the back, and acknowledging your own hard work, and the fantastic gifts you've already provided for your DD.
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but i, like you suffered supply issues, i started using motillium when L was about 4w as i too was getting lots the first few weeks then no matter how much i pumped i was getting less and less. (im unsure if you can take it with other meds tho check with your GP?)
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