Hey All
I am after a honest account / pro's and cons from those who ar ein the following situation or have been previously.

I have a 14 yo boy who I had unplanned at 20 but is just my angel that was supposed to be with me.
We then waited 8 years to be ready for number 2, my 'princess' who is now 6yo and we have just been blessed again with my bubba boy who is 4 weeks old.

I really want to have one more but really don't have time on my side to wait for another gap and after years of saying I wouldn't want two close together I think I do now.

We are discussing having another one soon, like very soon, starting to try again nowish or within the next month.
A little more info, my new bub is the only bub I have been able to be a stay at home mum, this is something I have craved from the time I had number 1 14 years ago, so you see this is the ideal time for me to focus fully and 110% percent on my family and not be juggling work etc.

What I am after here is advice / opinions and experiences from those who are in the situation with 2 under 12 months (this is the reality if I fell in the first 3 months of trying) or have been in that situation with their kids in the past.

How hard is it having teo babies?
Did they grow up close to each other?
What are the pro's and con's?

etc etc

Thanks in advance