Thanks everyone for the replies, unfortunately she does not like slow cooked meat either. Will just make sure I keep placing a small amount on her plate so at least she is offered it.

I don't ever make a big deal about food and amounts she has to eat just go with the flow, my SIL force feeds her kids until they gag and I can't stand it so I've always made a point of being fairly easy going around meal times.

Thanks inertia forf info around b12, will keep an eye out

Nai i might offer things like lentils and chickpeas, I actually think she would like them.