great thread. it made me think, i guess ive learnt to be less nieve, when someone tells me how i should be doing something or that i am wrong, i have to confidence to question them and belive that i am right!
I was surprised that i got frustrated so easily in the early days, but even more surprised that it only happened a few times and i learnt to change so quickly! im proud of myslef for being able to stand there for hours, in the middle of the night, feeling exhusted and angry, fighting the urge to yell ''well sod you then, i have no idea whats wrong'' and walk away from a situation, i have learnt empathy and patience.
I have also learnt that my usuall ''the best form of defence is attack'' responce when it comes to dealing with things with DH is not the way! And that everything doesnt always have be done my way.(DH almost fell over the first time i said...''im sorry, i was wrong''!)

Jeez i sound like i used to a terrible person, truth is i have matured so much in the last two years. Look forward to whatever my beautful LO is going to teach me next!