So after 2 stressful TTC and pregnancy journeys (involving fertility treatment, pre eclampsia and pre term labour scares) I thought I was done having babies for numerous reasons and DH agreed. But deep down I feel like Im not finished having children yet - but I am so over being pregnant with all my problems. I always planned on having 4 or 5 and when DH and I got married we agreed we'd play it by ear and reasses after each baby. I have two boys now (15mths apart) that I love and adore, but I feel like there is someone missing from our family. Dh is adamant that we are done and wont even contemplate the idea of *possibly* having another baby in a few years when the boys are in preschool because he feels thats too much of a gap (and because he thinks it would be too stressful).

How did you know you were complete as a family of 3/4/5 etc?

Oh and this has nothing to do with not having a daughter, as much as I would be happy if this hypothetical third baby was a girl Id be just as stoked with another handsome boy.