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Yup and its been this way for a while. It will take some time for language to change in society, its a whole generation, we are constantly learning. By being kind and gentle, people will be willing to learn, hear and understand what you need to hear.
Sorry Yeddi. I wasn't directing that comment to you in particular, I was talking more from the POV of how would I feel about someone who said it to me. I probably didn't phrase it very well.
In a nutshell, what I was trying to say is that it is not always as simple as that, sometimes the things that are said to us hurt, even if we know it's rubbish or that we made the right choice.