As a b/f mum - I still struggled to lose weight inbetween bubs anyway, that's the way my body works boooohooooo ....
Also, IMO each b/f relationship is different with each child. My sister FF both her kids from a week old and although we had different views, I could see how heartbreakingit was for her to keep trying to B/F - lots of things contributed. SO instead I just shut-up and supported her - which is what good friends/family should do!
As long as YOU are comfortable with the decision you make, try not to weigh in on what other people say.
Wishing you sooo much good luck for the coming weeks and can't wait to see your BA!
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