We are desperately needing some help!!!

Run down: Myself and partner Jessica have finally found a donor!!!!

He is a good friend of ours and we will be doing self inseminaton at home
BUT WE NEED SOME HELP
(We have a few questions, that if answered would be so deeply appreciated)

We live in Victoria, bit curious about the laws and also wondering should we say she self inseminated or is it okay to say i did? What are the legal rights right now?

We dont want his name on the birth certificate, he is going to be more like an uncle which he is happy with, and i will get put down as a parent, Jes the mother.
We are also wondering the process for me to have parental rights.

We need massive advice, we've spoken to many people and just do not know whats best for us to do in our situation.
Any replys with any information in Victoria self insemination procedures is so grateful.

Any experiences aswell,



Thankyou


Mel & Jes