It's been 4 years since my last pap smear. It hurt... A lot... and I've been scared to have one since. I've taken the leap and made the appointment. It's this afternoon and I'm freaking out, just a little bit, but it's getting worse. I need someone to hold my hand so I dont chicken out.
Good on you for making the appointment! I hope you don't get too freaked out. It really shouldn't hurt too much, more a little uncomfortable and maybe a little pinchy feeling.
I was watching The View (an American talk show with Whoopi Goldburg) just this week and they had a lady on who had been treated for Ovarian cancer. She said something that really stuck in my head. She said the best investment you can do for your children isn't a education or material things but to invest in your own health. She then proceeded to talk about getting regular checks for the appropriate things when they fall due and not letting them go.
It is so true, we are often too busy/scared/tired etc etc to invest in our own health but it is the best gift we can give our children for their future and the future of our family.
I agree to let the dr know you are a bit nervous. They should be sensitive to you and if they're not and/or it hurts, do tell them. (And then next time, go somewhere else!)
The thin prep is a good idea if you bleed a bit. It costs you about $30-$40 from memory but I need to have it otherwise I get called back because there was too much blood to get an accurate view of the cells. I think it is worth the money to only have the one smear!
Good luck, mate. I hope it all goes very quickly and painlessly for you.
Doc knows I'm scared, I talked to him about it a couple of days ago. He suggested I take my time but I think I really need to just get it over and done with so I made the appointment before I forgot. My anxiety isn't helped by the fact that I have done any landscaping in months silly really but he's kinda cute
I hope everything was okay and it wasn't painful. Big hugs.
I've had a really painful one before cause the dr ( wasn't my normal dr, he is my 2nd choice dr when I can't get into my own) pinched me with something or rather. It took me a while to get the courage to go back for the next one. I won't be going back to him again either.
well he tried really hard to not hurt me but he couldn't get the small speculum in. So he's referred me to the hossy. Not sure when I'll hear from them, hopefully it's not too long so I dont have to stew on it...
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