I also dont do well with hormonal contraception. I religiously temped and learned the Billings method, but these are not failsafe and I ended up telling DH that I had done the contraception for our entire marriage, and if he didn't want to get UTD it was either condom or abstinence. We always used condoms in conjunction with NFP, and were able to make the concious decision to TTC #3. TBH DH was happier to wear a condom and actually get some than to have me on hormones and have no libido.

Once this baby is born we will do NFP and condoms again until DH can get a Vasectomy, as 3 is it for us. My midwife has told us that DH will not be given a VS until he is at least 25, no matter what. I am lucky though that quite a bit of that year DH is likely to be away, as he is due to be deployed either late this year or early next year, so abstinence will be easy during that time and you can't get pregnant over the phone