Whoa! That sounds intense!

Um. I only have one DD and DH minds her while I go to ballet twice a week. I was doing pilates once a week too, but I found it too much, especially since I can't predict those nights when DD is up 3 or 4 times (with teething/illness etc).

As for the house. I try and kick DD and DH out once a fortnight and give it a really good clean, so the rest of the time its just surface cleaning iykwim?

Go easy on yourself hun. You must be exhausted!