Honestly, for me, all this stuff so far has come up with OTHER kids doing these things & us talking about it.

Leg shaving, I just said when you're grown up, when they were little. Make-up I don't really do either, but girls at school are starting to do these things, so thats when we talk about it. I haven't been asked, it just gets mentioned that so & so is doing this or that & I let her know when I think its appropriate, reasons why its not IMO & the rest she can figure out herself