But I do think we should set some yearly goals
Mabello a GF of mine does this with her husband every year - they have financial, "couple", children and family goals. One I can recall she told us about was they wanted to be a more active family, another was that as a couple they were going to admit something to eachother once a week (whether it was eating too much or something from their childhood they had kept secret) and so on.

I found it awfully hard to think of 101 things to put on my list too!!!