I'm not sure I've ever read a response more condescending than yours Mayaness and I guess given your response I should be incredibly grateful that you and I have opposing views on this subject.
Liz - I never said it wasn't challenging. In fact, I will tell anyone who asks that this is the most challenging job I have ever had but also the most rewarding.
I think its such a shame that a woman can't say she misses what she used to do pre-mothering without being condemned as someone who doesn't appreciate the privilege of being a mother. I also think its a shame that too few people seem to be capable of accepting that you can actually do both - miss your previous life as well as being a completely devoted, loving, nurturing mother.
