I am the same, wanting three. But I only decided that after having DD, since I enjoyed having her so much. DP has always wanted two, but is taking some convincing on even that, at the moment. So I think we'll see how we go after we get to number two and at the moment I've agreed to compromise at that. He's thinking of the practicalities around $$, me not working for a while, plus the extra stress that comes along with every new family member, etc. I don't think it would be fair for me to 'make' him have another child for no reason other than that my instincts are still ticking. He has agreed if we ever win lotto I can have as many as I want!