Need Some Advice Please !!!

[TwinsMummy]

I have twins daughters who are 3 1/2 and im having a really hard time with them lately. I work in the afternoons 1-6pm mon, tue & fri, 3-8 wed and 4-9 thur these times have made it very hard for me to establish a routine for my girls. When the twins were born the had a very strict routine thats was great for me they slept through from 3 months and were perfect babys but since theyre now a bit older and i work, their dad works and he also plays football tue & thur nights theyre constantly backwards and forwards i cant establish a routine for them. They have always behaved better when theyve had a routine to stick to. And in the last few months i feel like im losing control a little bit .They play up really bad at the shops then at night theyre out of control im ready to pull my hair out... I need a little bit of advice or if anyone else has a set routine for their toddlers id love to hear them not matter what the work hours or commitments i just need a little guidance and would love to hear what other mums do or how they deal with stressful toddlers. Thanx