Ok, I will try to keep this brief.

DD is 2 months old. 11pm - 2am is her 'awake' time. Not happy awake either. Cranky, crying, irritable awake.

I have tried everything. Keeping her awake during the day doesn't work and just tires me out more.
Once she's asleep at night she stays that way until she needs a feed, then goes back off to sleep, but it's the getting her off to sleep before 2am that I just can't seem to do!
She feeds 2hrly during the day and 2-3hrly overnight.

DF has said numerous times to just let her 'cry it out', but I don't understand this, as we decided NOT to do this?!?!?! I guess because he can just go to bed he doesn't have to deal with it.

Anyway, is anyone else in the same boat, and if yes, HOW can I get this baby to sleep?

Im losing my mind here, I am sooooooo tired. She is such a high needs baby....have I done this by not letting her soothe herself? She is never alone and is rarely not being held or worn......have I made a mistake? I am really doubting myself right now...