Last night DS wanted to feed 2-3 hrsly overnight.
this is fine except he gets on has a few sucks then goes to sleep. so i am thinking it is a comfort rather than hunger need.
By 3am i just gave him his dummy and co slept , he kept stirring but i persisted not feeding until 5am when i gave in (last feed 1230am)....
When is it ok to refuse feeds overnight? Surely he doesnt need 5 feeds overnight when he has gone with only 2 at times!
At around 6 weeks most babies hit a growth spurt, so he's almost certainly trying to increase your milk supply by feeding more frequently - even if he doesn't empty, he will be stimulating you by sucking even a few sucks.
I'm not sure when it's "ok" to stop feeding at night. In the interests of sustaining your milk supply it's better to let the baby be in control because he intuitively knows how to work your boobs. My DD fed at midnight and 5am until she was 7 months old, and during growth spurts she often came at 3am too.
Before trying to "refuse" night feeds I would try and get him to seriously have his night feed. Try and wake him up enough to suck for a while longer - then hopefully you get a bigger break before the next one.
I think 6 weeks is a little young to be refusing night feeds.
DS is 11 months old and still has 2 night feeds!
Like the other girls said, it'll probably be your bubs trying to increase your supply to meet his demands
Yeh, I too think it's too young yet to be cutting out those feeds. Ditto what the others have said with increasing your supply.
Although absolutely exhausting I know..
I guess the thing is, yes maybe at times he could live without 5 feeds a night if he had too, but at that age I don't think it's quite right to make him do so.
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Too early to refuse night feeds?
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