So, the girls dad and i are arguing, ha suprise suprise!
He tells me through the week that his aunty and uncle are having a chrissy do on sunday at their house as theyre going away christmas day, no worries thats fine, u guys go i'll stay home!
THEN mum reminds me that this sunday i'd agreed to have lunch with my late Pa's wife for her birthday/ christmas. this was organised weeks ago and i knew it was coming up, just didnt realise it was so soon.
Told adam of the dillema, basically saying sorry i'd forgotten id told mum we'd go around there for lunch already, you'll have to cancel your aunty and uncle (who we havent seen since jacks funeral in feb btw) and he kicks up a stink saying no, YOU go to your mums, im taking the girls to aunt and uncles.

Who wins here? yes i forgot but, i did say yes to mums first