I know there is another thread for gift ideas, but my question is a little different... The parent reps in both of my kids classes are organising a christmas gift from the class. I have contributed money to each of the class gifts ($20 per teacher plus $10 for the aide in my sons classroom). Do I still need to buy a personal gift?? I think not, but every year there are other parents who pitch in for the class gift and then buy another gift. I feel obliged to buy an individual gift - so as not to appear an ungrateful tight arse - despite the fact that I personally think contributing to the class gift is enough! Thoughts?