aaagggh I'm so torn.

We've just sold part of our business and we're very relieved to be rid of that part and we have a bit of extra cash so we're off on holiday to celebrate (sensible people would save their money ).

So now I'm torn between Thailand and Japan.

Japan would be 2 nights in Tokyo then off to the ski fields for 8 nights then home. We would probably do a day or 2 sightseeing near the ski fields.

Thailand would be fly to Phuket then travel to Krabi and then just drift around or stay put as the mood takes us. We would definitly ride an elephant but other than that we would mainly be lazing about.

Sooo the Thai option would be really relaxed and unstructured and spending lots of time with the children whereas the Japanese would be much more active and structured and since the boys would be at ski-school and creche we would see less of them and have daily deadlines for pick-up and drop off.

Which would you do? Please help me choose because every time I think I have chosen I start thinking taht the other would be better