DH and I had extremely heated discussions about this. My arguement was that many people live around their families, so potentially their safe spots, being family and friends' homes would also be in danger. He said that they could go to the shopping centre, etc. I responded with asking about pets. What are you supposed to do? Sit in the car on a stinking hot day? Safer than being in a fire, but dangerous in it's own regard. We have never come to a conclusion.
OP/ZF - You are always welcome to come to me. And if mine isn't safe, my dad lives in Glen Waverley, so you and the kids are welcome there too :)

