Hope you are doing OK Ree, going over is just a killer.

If it helps, my placenta and cord started deteriorating at 13 days over with dd1 and it showed in monitoring so don't let them scare you. Dd2 came at 12 days over and dd3 at 11 days over. Some of us are just slow cookers to perfection!

I agree with Cassius about having the big ugly cry! I had one before both of my vbacs plus I wrote my fear list and I think that helped get everything out and made my peace with whatever outcome I was dealt.

He will come eventually, can't stay in there forever!