oh and ARETECHIM.... I was a little concerned about having my other children around when labouring/birthing as they were only 1 1/2 & 2 1/2, then just under 4 1/2, 3 1/2 & 2 this time... but it was FINE!! first time I went into labour about an hr after they were in bed and they slept, DS woke right at the end but that just meant he was able to meet his newest sister quickly before heading back to bed. And I was fortunate enough to be able to have my Mum come keep an eye on the three of them this time as it ended up being late arvo/early evening & I wanted to know they werent going to be worried about what was happening or bother DHs grandfather too much (hes 85 and we were staying at & birthing in his house). But Mum said she wasn't really needed, they just played in the lounge room happily, meantioned me or DH once or twice but didn't even ask where I was or what I was doing! Very unusual I thought as I can't even go to the loo without one or more wondering what's happening normally LOL! So this they were ALL able to meet their little brother when he was brand new before heading to bed this time
These things have a way of working out. And if you do find yourself worrying at all just be reminded that it would be much harder if you WEREN'T at home, imagine trying to find someone last minute or worse still take them to the hospital!!!