Hi all,
I have had two amazing birth experiences so far. Grace was induced (only needed waters broken) and was 6hrs total, no pain relief...38weeks. Eve was natural waters breaking...37+weeks, 2hr labour (12mins of being uncomfortable and 2 pushes) no pain relief needed.
BUT
DH missed the 2nd birth...have never really gotten over it and i know that he is sad that he missed it......Do i try acupuncture this time when he is home for a few days (he travels away from home...) It is still messing with nature and i have never really been happy with having my waters broken with Grace even tho everything went so well.
It was and is so important to us that birth and after birth experience. Lucky for us he only walked in 20mins after the fact so we still got to go home 4hrs after and have a lovely night routeen. Grace excepted Eve so well and we have always put it down to the fact that life didnt change for her... I am having a homebirth this time so the girls will have me at home but i feel DH needs to be there not only for me, for himself the baby and the girls.....
Ahhhhh....what to do??




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