Hey hun, I totally understand the conundrum of when to wean... I've recently gone through it myself, but have decided to keep going until he's at least two or self weans (at least that's where we are at now). But over the last couple of months we have cut down to just two feeds a day (one first thing in the morning in bed and then one right before he goes to bed at night). When DS turned one, I went back to work one or two days a week. At first I kept up his day feeds when we were at home and he just went without when he was a CC or I wasn't home. Then one week he had a couple of days in a row at CC and then the day after I was out and he was home with DH, so it had been 3 days without a day feed. I just continued on from there and it really hasn't fussed him at all not having the day feeds, which was a bit of a suprise to me, I thought dropping them would be a bit of a battle...

Anyway, I'm rambling, but I guess what I'm trying to say is that if you want to keep feeding when you go back to work it is very workable to just do a morning and night feed. But at the same time, if you feel it's time to wean there's nothing wrong with that either, 14 months is a great effort and one which you should be very proud of